Have you ever wondered why girls are so complicated sometimes? They say one thing and mean another. Making us read between the lines instead of picking up on the actual message itself. Making us wonder what’s going on inside their crazy, beautiful minds.
At first I thought they just want someone to comfort them and not someone who’d simply read their thoughts. C’mon. A mind reader? You’ve got to be kidding me. But after putting so much thought into it, maybe that’s just what they really want. Although not literally.
Basically girls want someone who can get what they mean without them having to say the words. It seems ridiculous but if you think about it, they’re just looking for that certain “connection” with someone.
When you’re connected, you just know what to do and what not to, what she would like and what she wouldn’t, how she wants to be treated, what she’s feeling and why she’s feeling that way, when to say things, when to make her laugh, to give her long, tight hugs or when to leave her alone to think. Because when you’re deeply connected with someone, emotionally, physically and mentally, there is not much need for words.
And that’s what girls want. Someone who’d get them, who knows them well enough to have that connection. Whenever they feel that they shouldn’t have to explain themselves, it’s because you should already know what was the reason for her sudden change of mood. Maybe it was something you did or something you didn’t do.
So, fellas, listen to her. Don’t just listen when she’s talking to you, but also when she’s not. Pay very close attention to her and her actions alongside her gestures because they will give you clues in trying to figure her out.
I don’t mind waking up early just to greet you good morning
And I don’t mind staying up a little longer just to spend time with you even if there’s not much talking
I don’t mind putting off things on hold just so I can have a few minutes of your time
Because I don’t mind if you spare some of yours while I spare more of mine
I don’t mind bailing out on my friends just so I can hangout with you
I don’t mind if quality time doesn’t always mean all fun and games because I know we’re going to argue
I don’t mind swallowing my pride even if I’m actually right
Because I don’t mind being wrong all the time if it means being okay with you by the end of the night
I don’t mind it all as long as you feel the same way I do
Because, baby, by now I’m sure you know how truly and deeply I am in love you
I love you
During sex she said “deeper” so I rolled over and started reading her poetry
Loving someone means accepting them for who they are and for who they are not. It’s about recognizing them in their own uniqueness and not limiting them with whatever they can do. Because if you try to change someone and make them who you want them to be, to conform to what it is that’s convenient for you in the relationship, well, that’s not love anymore. That’s possession.
Love is not about what you’re going to get in return for the things you give from the bottom of your heart, because love is never selfish. It’s not thinking about oneself but rather the care for the other.
To love is to give, give and give unconditionally.
To love is to appreciate them without owning them or setting up boundaries.
To love is to forgive and to let them have another chance to learn from their mistakes.
To love is to forget all that’s bad and remember what’s good, what’s worth it and what’s worth fighting for.
To love is to let go. Not to let go in the way that you’d let them walk out of your life, but to let go of them just a little, to let them spread their wings and fly and hoping they’d come back. Because why cage a bird when the beauty is in seeing it soar high?
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Whenever a girl asks you a question, just tell her the truth. Chances are she already knows the answer and she just wants to know if you’re gonna be honest with her.
Trust me on this because I had to learn this the hard way. I lied to my girl. Not only did I break her heart but also her trust in me. When my lies finally caught up with me, I know I had to come clean. I know I had to tell her the truth. Not because I wanna be free of the guilt but because she deserves to know it and she deserves to hear it straight from me. And that’s just what I did. I told her.. everything. No matter how much it’s going to hurt her or how much of a jerk it’s going to make me seem like, I did.
The worst part for her wasn’t confirming all her suspicions, instead it was knowing that I had the audacity to lie to her every time she asked me about it before, that the guy she trusted the most would hurt her like that, that the last person she could ever think of doing that to her actually did.
The worst part for me wasn’t getting caught lying to her, but seeing the damage I’ve caused her, that she’s crying because of me, because of what I had done. When her heart broke, I swear I could hear mine breaking and it was unbearable. Whenever she cried, my heart cried twice as much. She didn’t deserve that and I didn’t deserve a single tear that fell from her eyes.
If you break her trust in you, never be afraid to try and put it back together with the tiny pieces of honesty. Because if you had the balls to lie to her, you better be damn sure you grow much bigger balls to tell her the truth. It takes guts, I should know. But always remember that if the truth already hurts, how much worse will lies be? No matter how painful, no matter how cliché, the truth does and will always set you free. Free of all the hurt, the guilt and the heartaches.
Each time you scribble down or write on a piece of paper, expressing the thoughts inside your head or the bursting emotions within, a tree smiles knowing that there is life after death.