I know it must be hard feeling “different” or “insecure” but there’s no need for you to feel that way. I really wish you had more confidence in yourselves. Not solely on your looks but also on who you are as a person. Because appearance is only one aspect. There’s so much more to a girl than just her looks. Just because she isn’t someone’s ideal girl, doesn’t mean she’s not as beautiful as anyone else. See, that’s the problem with a lot of people — in their mind, they have this idea or standard of “beauty” and whatnot. When in reality, you don’t need to be physically appealing to be appreciated. Our eyes lie to us. When you really get to know someone, you start to actually see what they’re really about. Something your eyes can’t show you. We all get old and our bodies age. Who cares if she doesn’t get hit on. Someone who can truly see her for who she is will eventually come.

Don’t pay attention to what society labels you. What you should be more concerned about is your character because your character will tell us who you really are. A down-to-earth girl with a genuine personality is someone truly worth having. Besides, one of the sexiest curves on a girl is her smile, so put a smile on. You’re beautiful and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise :)

Sincerely,

Me

I hope someday you will find an amazing guy. Someone who will be so proud to have you to call his own. Someone who will make you feel like you’re his everything and make you want to spend every moment of your time with him. I want you to fall so in love with him that falling out of love will be the last thing you could ever think about.

I hope he’s the kind of guy that would stay up all night just thinking about your beautiful smile, and when he falls asleep you’re the one he dreams of. I hope you’ll be the first thing that comes to his mind when he wakes up in the morning and the last thing that crosses his mind just before he closes his eyes at night. I hope he’ll accept you for who you are. And if by any chance he changes you in any way, I hope it’s for the better. I hope he’s the kind of guy who will put effort in everything he does for you, be it little or something grand, because a girl like you deserves only the best things in life. I hope he’s the kind of guy who’ll know your worth and be appreciative of what he has. I hope he knows that you’re a great person, that you’re smart, funny and beautiful in so many ways.

I wish you two will have a wonderful relationship together, the type where you can both be silly, have small fights with, then kiss, make up and fall madly in love again. I want you two to have what we didn’t.. cos I want you to be happy. That’s the only thing I’ve always wished for, even if your happiness no longer includes me. Please don’t forget that I will always keep you in my heart. I love you.

Sincerely,

Me

Please remember that I love you and I will continue loving you with all of my heart, with all that I am and with all that I’ll ever be. Everyday I will love you. There will be days when I will love you more. There will also be days when I’ll love you most. But baby, bear in mind that there will never be a day when I will love you less, or a day when I’ll stop loving you. Because the moment I gave you my heart, I told myself I’m never getting it back. It’s yours now.. I’m yours.. for keeps.

Sincerely,

Me

Thank You for putting my heart at ease for the past few days. You always seem to find the perfect timing to my suffering and for that I continue to be grateful for the amount of times You’ve always comforted me. I could never thank You enough. So each day I live I am in debt to you. What You’ve done for me cannot be comprehended or be repaid. So for that, thank You.

Amen.

Gusto ko sanang malaman mo na mas gugustuhin ko pang mag-away tayo kesa hindi mag-usap. Mas gugustuhin ko pang mag-away tayo kesa palagi akong mag-aalala kung okay ka lang ba.. o kung okay lang tayo. Mas gugustuhin ko pang magtalo tayo at magsigawan kesa mabingi sa ating katahimikan. Kaya lang naman tayo mag-aaway kasi mahalaga tayo sa isa’t isa, diba? Kaya nga mas gugustuhin kong makipag-away sayo, maglabas ng sama ng loob, magsabi ng mga dapat sabihin at makipag-ayos kesa isawalang bahala ang lahat.

Gusto kong manatili ka sa buhay ko, at kung kelangan e mag-away tayo na parang aso at pusa, ayos lang. Kasi mas gugustuhin ko pang makipag-away sayo kesa sumaya sa piling ng iba. 

Sincerely,

Me

I’m the type of guy who wants to show you than tell you, because I’m not always good with words. I’m better at showing it all. I want to show you how much you mean to me. I want to go to public places with you and just scream out something cliche like, “I HAVE THE BEST GIRLFRIEND IN THE WORLD!” just to make you feel special and just so everybody knows because I honestly mean it. And I wouldn’t care if you were to get embarrassed simply because I’m that proud to call you mine.

I wish I could do those little kind of things for you instead of having to tell you with boring and tiring phrases like “I miss you” and “You mean so much to me.” 

*sigh* I wish.. I really wish I could.. someday.

Sincerely,

Me

Do you want to know how to win a girl’s heart? Well, you should stop with all that corny shit, because she doesn’t want to hear how beautiful she is all the time. Why don’t you try and tease her, make her laugh, insult her, let her insult you, call her names and just be yourself.

I don’t understand why a lot of you prefer to go with the “nice guy” act. No wonder you guys often end up getting friendzoned. You don’t have to constantly kiss the girl’s ass and always compliment her. Man up, take control, and trust me, you’ll be fine.

Sincerely,

Me

It’s never really easy to know what to say sometimes, especially when we want to help those we care about. If only it were as easy as drawing a happy face on a paper bag, putting it over their head, and giving them the illusion that they are happy. 

I think there are a lot of people who don’t give themselves enough credit. Those are the people that will go out of their way to make someone’s day better even though theirs is far from okay. The people who don’t get all fancy, but rather focus on the little things — the things that matter to a person’s heart. The kind of people who can smile knowing that they’ve made someone else smile. 

Well, these same people.. they tend to put up walls. Sometimes they feel like they give so much, they don’t expect anything in return, even if deep down they really wantto. These are the people who have so much good to see in others but when it comes to seeing the good in themselves, it’s as if they attain a kind of self-blindness — they don’t see or understand what makes them so great or even interesting.

And you’re probably one of those people..

It’s hard to find the right words, but here I offer mine. I may not know what you’re going through right now, but don’t you ever forget how important you are. You make an impact in every person’s life that you’ve come into contact with. Don’t feel worthless and never convince yourself you’re alone. You never are. You may not have what you want now, but you will have all you need in time. Patience is something I’ve noticed you meet with on a daily basis. That’s a good quality to have. Just don’t let your negativity consume you. You’re better than that. 

“When you can’t find the right words to say, just remind them they’re never alone.”

Sincerely,

Me

I may not always have the patience to understand you, but I have a heart that can love you in spite of all your dramas, insecurities and mood swings. I will make this love grow even more stronger for when the time comes that I can no longer tolerate you, that love will knock me straight in the head and remind me how much I truly love you.

Any fight is worth losing if it means having you around for keeps.

Sincerely,

Me

Once we’re officially together, I am going to write down all the reasons why I love you. That way, when we’d fight (because I know we will), I could simply read each one of them and be able to realize that whatever we’re fighting about is just so insignificant compared to how much you mean to me. I know whatever comes our way, we’d be able to overcome it, no matter how big or small it is, if we just remind ourselves why we fell in love with each other in the first place.

Sincerely,

Me

Alam kong karamihan sa inyo e iniisip na dapat laging lalake ang maglagay ng effort sa kahit anumang bagay, sa panliligaw man, panunuyo, pagpapakumbaba, pakikiramdam at kung ano pa. Tingin niyo kasi porket kayo ‘yung babae e kayo lang ang dapat intindihin dahil kayo lang ang nasasaktan, kayo lang ang naiirita sa maliliit na bagay, kayo lang ang mabilis mapikon at magtampo sa pinakamababaw na dahilan. Pero sana naman minsan e isipin niyo rin na hindi lang kayo ang may nararamdaman. Kasi nasasaktan din kami, nagagalit, napipikon, nagtatampo, nawawalan ng gana at nauubusan ng pasensya.

Hindi naman kasi sa lahat ng oras e kayo ang dapat iniintindi, kasi hindi rin sa lahat ng oras e kaya namin kayong unawain at pagpasensyahan. Minsan kelangan niyo rin makiramdam, tingnan niyo kung nahihirapan na kaming sabayan kayo. Subukan niyo maging sensitive sa aming mga damdamin. Cos you know what? We’d really appreciate it if you’d just level with us on matters like that, rather than making our differences come between us.

Sincerely,

Me

You’re welcome. “You’re welcome” kasi alam kong ang laki ng pasasalamat mo sa akin at pinagtiyagaan kitang gamitin ng isang taon. Baka nga kung wala ako dito, siguro 50% ng mga Tumblr users sa buong mundo ang mawawala sa’yo. Okay, sorry. Masyadong humble ‘yung pagka-calculate ko, 90% pala talaga. You owe me that much kaya hindi na ako nagtataka kung bakit binabayaran ako ni David Karp para lang magstay sa site na ‘to. Mabuti na lang at maawain akong tao. Kaya muli ay walang anuman.

PS. Imbento lang lahat ng sinabi ko sa itaas. Narito na talaga ang totoong post:

Maraming salamat, Tumblr. Isang taon mo na rin akong kinupkop bilang isang alagad ng kalaswaan at kalokohan. Salamat sa mga aral na naituro mo sa’kin — mula sa iba’t ibang klase ng pakikipaghalikan hanggang sa iba’t ibang klase ng posisyon sa kama. Salamat sa pagyurak ng puri ng aking mga mata at pagpaslang sa buhay ko sa labas ng bahay. Salamat sa pagturo sa akin na isang napakalaking krimen ang hindi wastong paggamit ng “you’r at “you’re”. Salamat din sa mga pagkain, damit, sapatos at lugar na iyong laging pinapaiinggit sa akin. Salamat na rin sa mga TTH na nakakasuka at sa mga paulit-ulit na nire-reblog na mga GPOY na inunlike ko na.

Maliban sa’yo Tumblr, gusto ko rin pasalamatan ang mga follower ko. Hindi ko man alam kung paano ko sila nauto na i-follow ang blog ko pero nagpapasalamat na rin ako dahil kung wala kayo.. malamang nandito pa rin ako. Oo, hindi typo ‘yun. Magdeactivate man kayo, nandito pa rin ako. Ano ‘yun, nagdeactivate ka tas dadama mo ako? Wag ganun. Bad ‘yun. PERO hindi ko mararating kung nasaan man ako ngayon kung hindi dahil sa.. sarili ko. NGUNIT hindi ako magkakalakas-loob na ipagpatuloy ang ginagawa ko ngayon kung hindi dahil sa suporta niyo. Maraming salamat, lalo na dun sa mga hindi ako tinalikuran sa mga panahon ng aking pangangailangan. Maraming salamat sa mga pagkakaibigang nabuo tsaka ng pagkaka-ibigan na nauwi sa, um, ewan. At syempre, maraming salamat sa aking mga kalandian. Kung hindi dahil sa inyo, malamang naging boring ang isang taon ko dito. Maraming salamat talaga. Alam kong hindi sapat ang mga salitang ‘yun pero ‘yun lang ang maibibigay ko sa ngayon. Kaya magsawa kayo sa pasasalamat ko. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Yes, you, you, you, you and you. You, too. And all of you! Ang dami nyou. 

By the way, there’s no need to send me those “Happy Anniversary to your blog” sort of message. I’m just saying this cos some already have sent me. Pero to spare you from the hassle, wag na lang. It’s not much of a big deal anyway. And greeting me will just make me feel old, cos HELLO? Isang taon din kaya ‘yun. OMG. :)) Although for me, it’s just another year of being lifeless in front of the PC whilst scrolling down on sex GIFs. Just the thought that you guys are still there after all this time is more than enough. Thank you.

Sincerely,

SadyangMatalino

Never rush yourself with love. Just because you’re single and/or trying to move on from someone, doesn’t mean you have to date every guy that comes along your way. NO. Remember that desperation will only end up with you settling for less and you don’t deserve that. You deserve better because you are worth it.

Sincerely,

Me

Wag ka puro banat nang banat sa kanya. Oo, nakakakilig nga siguro ‘yung ibang banat mo pero pag lagi mo namang ginagawa ‘yun, magsasawa rin siya, mauumay. Bakit hindi mo subukang makipag-usap at makipagkwentuhan sa kanya? Tanungin mo siya kung ano ‘yung mga hilig niya, paboritong pagkain, banda o pelikula. Sa tingin ko kasi mas magugustuhan niya ‘yun. Mas maaappreciate niya kasi malalaman niyang interesado ka talaga sa kanya mismo, sa kung sino at ano siyang klaseng tao — hindi lang ‘yung kung anong nakikita mo sa kanya sa panlabas niyang anyo.

Sincerely,

Me